Its been so many years I have stopped writing.But the writing thing cannot go out of me I guess as I am much a thinker type and cannot survive without analyzing things.So here I am,with my first ever blog 'An Indian girl's delimma' specially of the modern day girl,the gen X.
Life of her starts on a smooth platform with the shell of her mom and dad.They take care of each of her requisites and her emotions.She starts with a good nursery school learning the ABC's then joins a convent school to advance her knowledge from amatuer to an expert.
For some of the species, this creature has to struggle to get an admission to a good proffessional college.Specially if the educational fees is higher.She has to compromise for her siblings,for the financial status of the family and all those other hundred reasons.If somebody lucky has crossed all the hurdles then she is an achiever truly ,she becomes a proffessional,kudos to her.
She finds a job for her surely.Initial years she struggles to establish her career ,does all possible things to polish it.Sometimes she stretches,she struggles,she simplifies the complex circumstances to get her niche in the proffession.After having done all this, one fine day her parents decide to get her married.
Her 'would be' husband wants him to leave her hard earned job.The reason is simple 'A women's career is not so important,she has to look after her family'.And here the delimma starts and continues.
In India today you will find thousands of such women,some of them working,struggling each day,tethered between the family and her proffession.In an attempt to balance both she loses her existence completely.She forgets her as an individual.Does any family member realize that.This blog is dedicated to all those darling moms and the much responsible employees of renowned MNC's.Indian women will surely cross this hurdle too and that too very soon.
Proud to be a woman.
Life of her starts on a smooth platform with the shell of her mom and dad.They take care of each of her requisites and her emotions.She starts with a good nursery school learning the ABC's then joins a convent school to advance her knowledge from amatuer to an expert.
For some of the species, this creature has to struggle to get an admission to a good proffessional college.Specially if the educational fees is higher.She has to compromise for her siblings,for the financial status of the family and all those other hundred reasons.If somebody lucky has crossed all the hurdles then she is an achiever truly ,she becomes a proffessional,kudos to her.
She finds a job for her surely.Initial years she struggles to establish her career ,does all possible things to polish it.Sometimes she stretches,she struggles,she simplifies the complex circumstances to get her niche in the proffession.After having done all this, one fine day her parents decide to get her married.
Her 'would be' husband wants him to leave her hard earned job.The reason is simple 'A women's career is not so important,she has to look after her family'.And here the delimma starts and continues.
In India today you will find thousands of such women,some of them working,struggling each day,tethered between the family and her proffession.In an attempt to balance both she loses her existence completely.She forgets her as an individual.Does any family member realize that.This blog is dedicated to all those darling moms and the much responsible employees of renowned MNC's.Indian women will surely cross this hurdle too and that too very soon.
Proud to be a woman.
thinkers are the moment of the hour, development doesnt restrict itself to software only, the largest software is the human society, where a lot of programming remains to be done, loneliness although hard is one of important factors leading to worthwhile creativity.
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